Porn: sexy or stupid?
Porn.
We’ve all heard about it. Many of us (whether we like to admit it or not) have probably seen some. And it sparks major controversy when considering its legitimacy in being.
I will happily admit that, until a few days ago, I was a porn virgin. Sure, I’d seen pictures before (heck, the lingerie catalogs I get in the mail could be confused for picture porn), but this was the first time I’d actually seen video porn. And to be honest, I was thoroughly unimpressed.
First, there was no heart in it. No meaning. Just two people having sex. Whoop-dee-doo. Frankly, when you’ve seen one sex-capade you’ve seen them all. And admittedly, I’m sure the porn industry makes more exciting versions, but really, there’s only so many times you can watch someone else have sex before it gets old. I actually turned to my fiance and said “geez, our sex is way hotter than that… maybe we should make a porno.” (I was entirely serious.)
You may think that I’m making a case against porn, but I’m really not. For me, it was mostly overrated. For those who love it, more power to you. Same for those who hate it. I’m more convinced than ever that it’s an extremely personal decision that should be made by each individual and respected by each partner in a relationship.
Figure out what makes you comfortable AND what makes you uncomfortable. And don’t let anyone make you feel bad for it.
March 3, 2010 at 4:58 pm | Sex + Love | No comment